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Do you feel confused when a guy acted into you… then disappeared?
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Do you find it hard to say no?
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Do you want a better life than your mother?
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Indonesian women keep repeating the same mistakes when dating Western men....
This book will tell you the truths no one dares to say out loud.efore it’s too deep.
This isn’t a dating guide.
It’s a wake-up call.
💔 Real stories. Real men. Real field research. Real experience.
Before a Bule
breaks your heart.....
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What You'll Get
In this FREE Lite Version, you’ll get:
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My raw, honest introduction (it’s like reading your own diary)
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Two quotes with illustrations—so you can feel the truth
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The beginning of Dante’s story, the Ladies' man looking for real love—the kind of love we all dream about…
No advice, no rules—just the realest first taste of the book everyone’s talking about.
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After 100+ dates, a psychology degree, and a few (okay, several) heartbreaks, I learned this the hard way:
It’s never just about the man.
It’s about the stories we’ve been told—and the ones we’re ready to rewrite.
I used to think love was about finding the right person.
Now I know — it’s about facing the stories we inherited,
ditching the ones that keep us small,
and rewriting the rest on our own terms.
Because long-term love isn’t luck.
It’s self-work done while you’re still single.
Hi, I'm Erisca
What is Tanya Erisca?
In Indonesian, “Tanya” means “question” or “to ask.”
So, Tanya Erisca = “Ask Erisca”—and I’ll ask you, too.
I’m on a lifelong quest to understand what makes love last—especially in today’s messy, modern world.
This space is for Indonesian and Asian women navigating relationships with Western men, without confusion or drama. Here, we question, reflect, and support each other—no judgment, just real stories.
Through heartbreak, deep reflection, and honest conversations, I’ve gathered truths and patterns most people overlook.
This isn’t about giving you answers—it’s about helping you ask better questions, so you can find your own way in love and life.
Ready to break the cycle?
I’m Erisca. At your service.
✨ Ask deeper. Heal wiser. Live truer ✨
Faiz, 30, Marketing Manager, Vietnam
"It's not just about dating. It's raw and hits deep. Part memoir, cultural tea & wake-up slap. It calls out patterns we don't want to admit, the craving for validation we confuse as love, and the trap of mistaking attention for affection."